Don’t you still have embryos? @Rachelle and Justin I saw your replies to others asking the same question! I have watched your videos and never picked up on your thoughts as in the comments! I think it is a major problem with IVF! As you well know, those embryos are babies if given a chance would be loved like your others! As a Christian, I would really wrestle with this decision! My heart is tender towards the little ones especially after watching my 12 week preemie granddaughter’s personality and love for her mommy and daddy for four months before she went home to heaven because of an abnormality which kept her in NICU her whole life! I pray God brings the right couple for your embryos so they can be raised by loving parents and taught God’s love and Truth!
The boys are growing so fast, and their speech is amazing!! Your curls are beautiful Rachelle. The weather here in North Carolina has been really cold. Nights in the teens!! Today was 56!! I think Mother Nature has PMS....
I had my tubes tied and cut after my 4th child when he was 10 days old. That was 21 years ago. But I remember that I was very emotional for about 4 weeks before and after. Then I had to have a complete hysterectomy on the 14th of December and I had a emotional roller coaster even though I didn't want any more kids. It's just so emotional because it's not only the end of the chapter but it's so final.. all I can say is enjoy every moment of every day xx
My hubby had the snip when my daughter was 4 months old. I didn't want any more because of complications. Sadly, he passed very young, but he was a star. I love your hair in curls. Really looks good.
You be right Justin you can do this my husband had his done after our last baby was born so easy straight in little procedure then home after to recover
I've been watching your channel for so long it's beginning to bleed over into my dreams! I had a dream that you and your family were at one of my family gatherings?? So strange 😅 but i adore you and your sweet family! It would be so cool to meet you in person after following you for so long! 💛
Your hair is darling!! Yes I'm from Michigan and we were blasted for 3 days, mostly on the west side of the state where I'm from, so much snow and bitter cold. Right now? 50°and it's 834 am. Wild huh?? Love you guys! 💕💕
I wish I could see you guys. Can't imagine one day that you announce you r not gonna vlog anymore 😭😭 we love watching all of you specifically my daughter is in luv with your kids 🥰
First time I've been able to watch your channel since losing my baby, I thought about you guy's often just couldn't bring myself to watch I'm glad to see everyone's doing good
Roch I love how you’ve recorded this to show yourself what they look like where , while editing to make the choice before you tell Justin we’re they need to go 🤣 doing it for the fans!
I've seen all the comments about how much easier a vasectomy is and a few who have commented that it's REVERSIBLE. My husband had one back when we had our 3rd child. We were both so young (22 and 24) but I had BIG BIG babies and I was very small, plus I had all c-sections (up and down cuts) and I had serious postpartum depression with 2 of them so we thought we were DONE DONE DONE! We had it done while I was pregnant with our 3rd child (7 months) I wanted to say, be careful, my husband had a serious complication afterwards. He got an infection that caused severe pain and swelling and caused his tubes on one side to grow a small connection back. It was so small that the tests afterwards came back clear of sperm. But, 2 years later, I was pregnant....SHOCK OF SHOCKS!! (I was secretly so happy but unfortunately it ended in a still birth at 4 mo. ) It never happened again. (We divorced later and I remarried and had 1 more child but it was devastating on my mind and body but I am forever grateful for her. ) Also, about it being reversible. Yes, it can be but as time goes by, the man's body can stop making the sperm. Some have been reversed and never produced viable sperm .
8:10 also, this is exactly how my husband is too! I'll ask for opinions and he's like, I don't care.. just tell me where you want them! Like, Thanks for the feedback my guy 🙄
Why the questions re the embryos? It is two different decisions for two different life stages! Birth control for family life NOW, versus family life in the future. Things will be very different in 10 years time, and that's when a decision about remaining embryos should be made.
the good thing about Justine getting the procedure is that if after the kids grow up a bit and they decide they still want kids they can still use the frozen embryos and Rachelle could still get pregnant
I am n Illinois we got some but my heart just breaks for all yall!!iv never seen it getvso bad like that my prayers of comfort to all who lost lives and to those families of loved ones who didn't make it I'm praying daily for all yall
I thought you would have a Christmas Morning Video…. Watching the kids waking up to see Santa had came…..BUT…. I completely understand you may have wanted to keep that private for Family Only….. hope you had a lovely Christmas Day 🎅🏼🎄
I wonder of they named the cat 'Mister' after the Harry Dresden books? Dresden is a wizard with a cat named 'Mister', for anyone that doesn't get the reference.
Are you potty training the boys? I heard you ask them if they needed to go potty. I can't believe how big theyre getting. As for the lights?, I think you should put them by the mirror by the front door.
When I was looking, I think you could put those little lamps on each side of the pillar right next to the mirror that you wanted to put it, you know where the doorways to the hallway.
My son just got a vasectomy on December 23rd. He and my daughter in law don’t want any children. I won’t tell them but I’m really sad I think they know but it’s not my place to make them feel guilty. 😢
If y'all are absolutely sure you're done having kids without any doubt then a vasectomy is the right thing to do. It's less evasive and it's the least the man can do since the woman carried the pregnancies and gave birth to them. They've been through a lot already!
Finances are a huge factor, and I want to give each of our kids the time and attention they deserve and not feel spread too thin where they feel they didn’t get enough of mom and dad. 💕
You still have frozen eggs at the fertility clinic if you change your mind. You don't need Justine sperm. So the door is not closed like your saying. So I'm confused by you saying that?
Finances are a huge factor, and I want to give each of our kids the time and attention they deserve and not feel spread too thin where they feel they didn’t get enough of mom and dad. 💕
Perfect way to wake up with my morning coffee ❤️
Love from Australia 🇦🇺
I had a tubal after 4, it is only emotional bc the what ifs and the finality, it feels great to have this freedom !!
Don’t you still have embryos? @Rachelle and Justin I saw your replies to others asking the same question! I have watched your videos and never picked up on your thoughts as in the comments! I think it is a major problem with IVF! As you well know, those embryos are babies if given a chance would be loved like your others! As a Christian, I would really wrestle with this decision! My heart is tender towards the little ones especially after watching my 12 week preemie granddaughter’s personality and love for her mommy and daddy for four months before she went home to heaven because of an abnormality which kept her in NICU her whole life! I pray God brings the right couple for your embryos so they can be raised by loving parents and taught God’s love and Truth!
If you absolutely feel you need to know, why don't you do a search..."embryos frozen rachelle and justin"...they've answered the question many times.
Love u guys love your children and channel so much brighten up my day
I think the lights in the playroom would be the most useful for needing evening light
The boys are growing so fast, and their speech is amazing!!
Your curls are beautiful Rachelle.
The weather here in North Carolina has been really cold. Nights in the teens!!
Today was 56!! I think Mother Nature has
PMS....
For real you can tell how much they talk to their kids.
I had my tubes tied and cut after my 4th child when he was 10 days old. That was 21 years ago. But I remember that I was very emotional for about 4 weeks before and after. Then I had to have a complete hysterectomy on the 14th of December and I had a emotional roller coaster even though I didn't want any more kids. It's just so emotional because it's not only the end of the chapter but it's so final.. all I can say is enjoy every moment of every day xx
Ooov so sorry
You have the perfect number for joyous chaos, Rachelle. (And still being able to maybe afford college!) ❤
My hubby had the snip when my daughter was 4 months old. I didn't want any more because of complications. Sadly, he passed very young, but he was a star.
I love your hair in curls. Really looks good.
You be right Justin you can do this my husband had his done after our last baby was born so easy straight in little procedure then home after to recover
Sad! We need more swannie babiesssss! Lol but I get it! I hope you guys are happy with your complete little fam!
I've been watching your channel for so long it's beginning to bleed over into my dreams! I had a dream that you and your family were at one of my family gatherings?? So strange 😅 but i adore you and your sweet family! It would be so cool to meet you in person after following you for so long! 💛
Your hair is darling!! Yes I'm from Michigan and we were blasted for 3 days, mostly on the west side of the state where I'm from, so much snow and bitter cold. Right now? 50°and it's 834 am. Wild huh?? Love you guys! 💕💕
I wish I could see you guys. Can't imagine one day that you announce you r not gonna vlog anymore 😭😭 we love watching all of you specifically my daughter is in luv with your kids 🥰
First time I've been able to watch your channel since losing my baby, I thought about you guy's often just couldn't bring myself to watch I'm glad to see everyone's doing good
Roch I love how you’ve recorded this to show yourself what they look like where , while editing to make the choice before you tell Justin we’re they need to go 🤣 doing it for the fans!
I got the exact same hair curler for Christmas. Trying it out tonight for the first time. I'm hoping it will turn out well tomorrow
I've seen all the comments about how much easier a vasectomy is and a few who have commented that it's REVERSIBLE.
My husband had one back when we had our 3rd child. We were both so young (22 and 24) but I had BIG BIG babies and I was very small, plus I had all c-sections (up and down cuts) and I had serious postpartum depression with 2 of them so we thought we were DONE DONE DONE! We had it done while I was pregnant with our 3rd child (7 months)
I wanted to say, be careful, my husband had a serious complication afterwards. He got an infection that caused severe pain and swelling and caused his tubes on one side to grow a small connection back. It was so small that the tests afterwards came back clear of sperm. But, 2 years later, I was pregnant....SHOCK OF SHOCKS!! (I was secretly so happy but unfortunately it ended in a still birth at 4 mo. ) It never happened again. (We divorced later and I remarried and had 1 more child but it was devastating on my mind and body but I am forever grateful for her. )
Also, about it being reversible. Yes, it can be but as time goes by, the man's body can stop making the sperm. Some have been reversed and never produced viable sperm .
I have been watching your video for lots of years y'all have a nice family. Two boys and the two girls they are growing so fast.
You have a beautiful family Rachelle and Justin! 💜
Happy New Year Rachelle and Justin xxx
Hubby had vasectomy, said it was so much easier than he imagined...he had himself worked up thinking it was going to be so bad lol.
Hugs & Blessings of Peace, Good Health & Happiness throughout the Holiday Season & The New Year
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I just use the belt of my robe to curl my hair like that and it works perfect and was free!
Bittersweet. At the same stage, my husband is about to schedule his too.
You are starting a new year and ending a big chapter ❤️ your babies are growing Beautifully
I Have only two words here. " Poor Justin." Seriously, you have a beautiful family and I love your hair Rachelle.
My husband had his done after the birth of our 3rd child who will be 31 next month. It's the best thing. No more worries 🙂
My sister was the result of a failed vasectomy lol❤
Four children is a perfect number. Especially as you have 2 girls and 2 boys.
HAHAHA I thought Rachel was going to say "this was a 20 second miracle" (meaning Faye) , while Justin was holding Faye
I agree with you!!! Put them at the front door!!! I hope you had a Very Merry Christmas!!! God Bless!!!
The boys sound like they're learning to go on potty!
Happy New Year!!!
Hallelujah… now we can get back to seeing all he fun stuff 👍
My doctor told me he once did a vasectomy on a rodeo cowboy on a Friday and the guy was in a rodeo 2 days later! It's a piece of cake.
I was looking forward to your Christmas video 📹. But I understand family is important. Many wishes to you and your family 👪 ❤️ 🙏
8:10 also, this is exactly how my husband is too! I'll ask for opinions and he's like, I don't care.. just tell me where you want them! Like, Thanks for the feedback my guy 🙄
Merry chrismas from sweden and a happy new year
Why the questions re the embryos? It is two different decisions for two different life stages! Birth control for family life NOW, versus family life in the future. Things will be very different in 10 years time, and that's when a decision about remaining embryos should be made.
Did you not hear they decided to not have more kids ?
⚘Good afternoon
I hope everyone had a blessed wonderful great and Happy Merry Christmas 🎄
Happy new year 🎉
the good thing about Justine getting the procedure is that if after the kids grow up a bit and they decide they still want kids they can still use the frozen embryos and Rachelle could still get pregnant
I love the lights up by mirror they'll look so pretty
Prayers for your husband on his surgery
We just went through a crazy snow storm. We got over 100 inches of snow. Many people lost their lives. May they rest in peace.
Sending many prayers to friends and family who are suffering the loss.
Glad you’re ok, we felt the after effects in NYC, but thankfully we didn’t have it bad like you.
@mary sayre you definitely got hit harder than us Canadians
I am n Illinois we got some but my heart just breaks for all yall!!iv never seen it getvso bad like that my prayers of comfort to all who lost lives and to those families of loved ones who didn't make it I'm praying daily for all yall
@Rachelle and Justin we are slowly getting through it thanks to our amazing community that is willing to help.
I was secretly hoping y'all would have baby number 6 lol.
I thought you would have a Christmas Morning Video…. Watching the kids waking up to see Santa had came…..BUT…. I completely understand you may have wanted to keep that private for Family Only….. hope you had a lovely Christmas Day 🎅🏼🎄
I haven’t watched the video yet but if you are truly thinking of scheduling this please look into the side effects it could have on poor Justin.
A vasectomy and really done means you made a decision about the frozen embryos you are at peace with. Happy New Year.
@Tee I think she's doing embryo adoption.
@TeeYes a vasectomy only means he can't make any. It can be reversed also.
She could still implant them later cant she? If they changed their minds?
I wonder of they named the cat 'Mister' after the Harry Dresden books? Dresden is a wizard with a cat named 'Mister', for anyone that doesn't get the reference.
I’m not sure but I think they rescued him from a shelter and was already named but I could be completely wrong
Are you potty training the boys? I heard you ask them if they needed to go potty. I can't believe how big theyre getting. As for the lights?, I think you should put them by the mirror by the front door.
I would put them in the playroom myself. You already have a light at the front door and in the dining room.
Happy new year
Turn your camera on and have justin hold a sconce on one side of the window and you on the other side to see if you like it!
When I was looking, I think you could put those little lamps on each side of the pillar right next to the mirror that you wanted to put it, you know where the doorways to the hallway.
what if you attached the sconces to the wooden posts ( beams )
Put the lights in the dining they look great either side of the painting
Maybe Pepper can get his vasectomy at the same time. Then he & Justin can give each other comfort.
Why would you even say that
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I really like the lights by the door
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My son just got a vasectomy on December 23rd. He and my daughter in law don’t want any children. I won’t tell them but I’m really sad I think they know but it’s not my place to make them feel guilty. 😢
What about putting a lamp on each side of the hallway entrance. Hopefully that makes sense. I wish we could do pictures in comments lol.
What are you going to do with all those frozen embryos you still have?
Playroom would look nice for the lights
If y'all are absolutely sure you're done having kids without any doubt then a vasectomy is the right thing to do.
It's less evasive and it's the least the man can do since the woman carried the pregnancies and gave birth to them. They've been through a lot already!
Yes!!
I know you’ve said it, but I can’t find it! Where did you get your couch I’m looking for a new one and I know you said yours was easily washable
Oooo playroom is my vote!!:)
When my brother in law got his I said snip snip hooray😂
Aww missed opportunity to say that to my husband when he got his done. Lol
The dining room looks best.
What about putting the sconces on wood pillars
You should show the process on how you use the hair- curler- thing- how you put it on.
How about on the wood pillars, for the lights
Your lights would def look better in the dining g room.
Those lights would look good in a bedroom it dont look so good by the door or the play room
Why does he have to gave the Vasectomy ok you can have your tubes tyed you both have it done why always the men
Love from England uk Liverpool
Are the boys potty training. Heard you ask if they needed to go
Why not 5 or 7? It would be really cool to see that big of a family. I understand though, because of expenses. Love the content!
@Rachelle and Justin that's an great e
Reason Mrs. Rachelle I think my own Mother and Father did it for the same reasons.
Finances are a huge factor, and I want to give each of our kids the time and attention they deserve and not feel spread too thin where they feel they didn’t get enough of mom and dad. 💕
Not your life
Four is good. I'm the baby of 8 and it was a lot for my parents. Granted we got the love & attention we needed. I was also born with disabilities.
What about above the fireplace on each side of a picture?
Just watched your post from instagram IVF journey? Are you changing your mind?
You have quite a few embryos in storage. A vasectomy is not the end for you guys. Don’t forget about those souls.
They decided 4 is how many kids they want let's support that
That door stop won’t stop door before hitting light.
Dining Room... because ,.. perhaps the battery operated lighting won't be bright enough for the other rooms?
What are you going to do with the rest of your frozen eggs?
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Should have gone to home depot that day to get stopper
My vote is the playroom
Put them in playroom
They're reversible now. You're not locked in, but I get it. All the best to you and your family. Happy new year ! ❤️
Playroom 👍🏻
How come no Christmas vllog
Near front door but up higher...?
Playroom would be best
Playroom for lights
Way too drastic. Don't do it.
His body is choice. Where are all the trolls coming from. They don't want anymore kids.
You still have frozen eggs at the fertility clinic if you change your mind. You don't need Justine sperm. So the door is not closed like your saying. So I'm confused by you saying that?
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Why u guys are still young
@Rachelle and Justin i understand sweetie....much love to you and your family...god bless you
Finances are a huge factor, and I want to give each of our kids the time and attention they deserve and not feel spread too thin where they feel they didn’t get enough of mom and dad. 💕